Many things have changed since we made a "media revolution" around the theme of sexuality in the 70s through the television program "Sincerely." (A Costa Rica TV show produced by Javier). The subject is no longer taboo; the information is now accessible to everyone; the new generations have great need to experience new things; women no longer need to define themselves as lesbians to enjoy each other; sex is now less important for both genders and the understanding of the rainbow of the genre has already reached national legislation. However, despite all this, something has not changed: women still do not fully enjoy their sexuality. Would you like to know why?

Writing this article I risk to sound rude and macho.

However, due to my 30 years of work as a sexologist, I am one of the few people in this country (Costa Rica) with the right to say it without being accused of being a liar or exaggerated. In addition, next to this bad news I have another very good one: now if the conditions are in place to make this start to change, because women are already demanding their rights and because we already have a medium sufficiently positioned and with the necessary value to Take on that responsibility The responsibility to help us take another step in the conscious evolution of this beautiful land, in which today animal sexuality, prehuman sexuality and human sexuality coexist. Animal sexuality is characterized as an instinctive response, controlled by inherited patterns and in which there is no orgasm of the female or control of the sexual response by the male. Both copulate "by necessity" when they have the possibility of doing so due to hormonal conditions outside the voluntary control and do so as quickly as possible, to avoid the attack of a predator or a male competing for the female.

Since about four million years ago, our male ancestors began to experience pleasurable sensations when copulating. However, it was not until the appearance of Homo erectus that we began to be aware of sexual pleasure and it took another two million years for prehuman sexuality to appear little by little.

The "prehuman sexuality" of which I speak is characterized as a response freer from the control of the instincts, but shares with animal sexuality the lack of orgasm and enjoyment of the woman. Likewise, he shares the relative speed of sexual intercourse and the lack of control of sexual response on the part of both. Although the coitus of the human being is one of the most extensive in nature (three and a half minutes on average), it remains excessively short in terms of true female sexual enjoyment.

In this state of "prehuman" sexuality there are about 70% of people.

Human sexuality, lived for the remaining 30%, is characterized as a free response to the control of the instincts and includes both the male's ejaculatory control and the full enjoyment of the woman's orgasm.

It may seem very strange and contradictory that most humans live a "prehuman" sexuality, but for the expert eye it really is not. What this means is that "human" sexuality is really just coming, and that the "human being" has not finished separating from the animal. But in our prehuman sexuality there is something even more interesting and at the same time more significant for the moment in which we live.

Do not be angry when reading what I will explain before finishing the article! Especially if you are a woman! and please do not quote it out of context, because it would seem the opposite of what I mean. Rather relax and enjoy, because it will read something that can not yet be found on the internet and that can change your perspective and behavior forever.The reason why most women do not have orgasm during intercourse is because the female orgasm is not something "natural". With this I mean that the female coital orgasm does not belong to the nature of female sexuality, as if coitus does. It is rather about what in anthropology we call a "cultural trait". Therefore, although intercourse is something "natural" and does not require learning to take place, enjoying orgasm during it is something learned and must be passed on from generation to generation through education or "socialization".

From the biological point of view, the vagina evolved as a perfect organ for penetration and pregnancy, but not for sexual enjoyment. Different thing happened with the penis. For this reason, male coital orgasm is universal, while only 30% of women enjoy it.

This could be different, but it is not, because our culture has refused to welcome the sexual enjoyment of women. Put in a non-offensive way, we are stuck in evolution because the dominant culture does not want them to enjoy sexuality. But he does not do it because he does not "love" them, or because he wants an evil for them. In fact, most of us men believe that we are good lovers and that women really enjoy our sexual game. Meanwhile, from 60% to 80% of women (according to different studies), overact and fake orgasm.

Unfortunately, the reason why our culture does not allow the female orgasm to become universal through education is unknown to most people. It is a pity, because knowing it helps to modify sexual attitudes and clarify values...."

 

To learn more about Javier Ortiz Gutiérrez, visit his Facebook page here:   http://facebook.com/javierortiz2121

Written for OPA Magazine Career Astrologer: June 2018 opaastrology.org

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The mystery school of Aquarius is where/when we evolve through detaching from our existing reality to gain a less personal, more “cosmic” or “heightened” perception of it. Like the view from a helicopter as it takes off from the forest, our view extends beyond the trees to include the valley, the rivers and streams, the mountains, and perhaps the ocean beyond. If we take our identity in place of the forest, we might imagine getting a broader understanding of the past conditioning that has guided our choices to create the life we are now living. By stepping outside our ego and into our spiritual “observer” or “witness” with the intention of improving ourselves and our lives, we will immediately note, and desire to change, fears, beliefs, and relationships that are inhibiting the full expression and manifestation of our potential. Hence, Aquarius is associated with rebellion from the norm, revolution, and liberation from the past.

Mars in Aquarius heightens our impulsive, instinctive, will to forge ahead into that cockpit of our helicopter, to heat up and speed up this process. It conjuncting the south node of the Moon June 8, July 20, and September 26th reflects the cutting of past emotional and karmic cords for the sake of greater freedom of choice, independence, and innovation. It squaring Uranus virtually from mid-May to mid-September intensifies the soul’s unconscious need within all of us to differentiate and individuate. This process of individualization can take many forms on many levels from changes within our most intimate sexual relationships to countries declaring war on a global scale. One thing is certain, the extent, depth, and radical nature of these changes will be sudden, perhaps shocking, and bring in new realties that replace outmoded, perhaps secure and cherished realities, never to return.

The fixed nature of Aquarius combined with the fiery nature of Mars can lead to inflexible, stubborn, and self-righteous acts of rebellion leading to accidents, trauma, problems with friends and associates, violent situations, and of course, stress. The desire to experiment with new forms of self-expression of an unconventional nature will lead many to challenge their current modes of sexual expression and relationships. These can range anywhere from being asexual/celibate to open marriage arrangements, group sex, pansexual and experimental forms

of “detached,” or observational sex through magazines, clubs, devices, and technological means of “connecting.” This experimentation can have us descending to the lowest, profane forms of sexual expression or result in the highest spiritual awakenings of sacred sexuality. In general, this time period is excellent for meeting new people and creating new means of self- expression liberated from previous inhibitions, fears, and limitations. It affords each of us the opportunity to re-forge our lives to reflect a heightened awareness and balance of our masculine and feminine natures. Specifically, the house position of transiting Mars will indicate the area of life most undergoing “remodeling.” These new relationships can lead to new sources of income (2nd house), new artistic creations (5th), relationships (7th), beliefs (9th), careers (10th) etc. Technology affording us the means by which we can reach others globally can expand our limited perception of “reality” to include vast new realms of expression and understanding. On a world scale, the mass movement demanding freedom of personal choice may lead anywhere from governmental/institutional crackdowns to revolutionary reformation/creation of new communities, means of economic exchange, and artistic, “enlightened,” therapies to reduce stress.

Mars, symbolic of the masculine principle, is naturally extroverted. Acting out from the center it brings our desires, rooted in the Soul, to consciousness in order to be acted upon. While direct then, we can expect our personal will to be activated toward reaching out, manifesting, and change in the outer world. From May to late June, we will feel the inner urges to detach from existing outer realities and conditions to free ourselves and move forward toward the as yet unknown, but “envisioned,” possibilities.

However, during Mars' two month retrograde period (late June to late August), the extroverted natural action of Mars will be inverted and turned inward to reflect on, and modify the changes initiated during the direct motion. It is a time period cosmically designed to “rebel against ourselves,” more than external conditions. This gives us the opportunity to explore our inner psyches, which are fundamental in creating our external realities. We may deal with the reactions from others, the bursting of our illusions, or the karmic results of actions taken that are not in alignment with the evolution of our soul, the other, our personal partnerships, groups, or nations. These are designed to expand our awareness outside our subjective reality, that we may take into account the needs, feelings, and positions/beliefs of others, who, in turn will stimulate our own inner awakening.

As we can see, this is a 6-month stretch of time infused with uncertainty and instability that can lead to increased stress, desire to escape, and sudden impulsive actions causing ourselves and others great trauma. It is a time when our repressed anger can turn destructive and needs to be calmed, soothed, and guided by higher principles, truth, and responsibility. The shadow side of Aquarius is assuming that it is already in a higher state of consciousness than others, which can result in cold, arrogant, unfeeling, and cruel acts of destruction.

The intellect, acting independently from the heart, at a much more rapid pace, can lead to restlessness, accidents, ill health, and the breakdown of the nervous system. It is more important than ever to slow ourselves down and take time out between the impulse and the

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